It's not about the nail
Have you seen this video yet? It's been ALL over Facebook for weeks now.
This describes how I am feeling all too well today.
The truth is that at the end of the day, women really do just want someone to listen to them, hug them, and tell them it will be alright. (And for men, whether they are right or wrong, to stop telling them how to fix it, or what the root of the problem is!)